Dear Matt,
What does it mean to be “hot”? Does it go beyond looking attractive? I buy tons of beauty products and spend money on trendy clothes but I see “hot” women who aren’t even as pretty as I am and the guys are hanging all over them.
Absolutely. Having smokin’ good looks definitely makes you “hot”, but there are also little things that women do that drive guys crazy:
1. Men love to be with a woman who is driven by something other than the relationship.
2. Confidence is key. Men think it’s hot when a woman knows who she is, what she wants and where she is going.
3. Being low-maintenance is definitely hot. No makeup. No fussing in the mirror. No two hours to get ready for a trip to the grocery store.
4. Showing interest in something he likes such as the basketball game, a cool gadget or his Monday night softball game. He knows you couldn’t care less about his new iPhone, but the fact that you’re making the effort is very hot.
5. Not always taking charge. Let him make the plans and surprise you. Guys like to be the guy every once in awhile-- it makes them feel manly to know that they can provide for their hot girl.
For More Advice Check Out: Why Hasn’t He Called? How Guys Really Think & How To Get The Right One Interested In You by Matt Titus & Tamsen Fadal
