Excuse me, can you tell me the easiest way to get to [fill in the name of the street or location]? (Men love to act as if they know directions even when they don’t.)
What’s a good place to get a quick bite to eat around here? (This is a great one to use following a lecture, movie or other event - and you must act as if you are going alone.)
Sorry to bother you, I can’t find anyone who works here, do you know where I can find the [fill in the item]? (Excellent for Home Depot, Lowe’s or the grocery store.)
Do you have the time? (A truly timeless approach!)
Oh my gosh, my sister wants a dog just like yours! (Please make sure you have a sister . . . and that he has a dog.)
What gym do you belong to? I thought I saw you at mine. (Which invites his question: Where do you workout?)
Hey, [insert a name]! (This is done when his back is turned-act like you know him—it works!)
You have such great style, could you help me pick out tie that goes well with this shirt? Tomorrow is my [brother’s, father’s, uncle’s…] birthday.
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Tamsen, are these for guys to use on girls, or for girls to use on guys?


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