Let’s face it: at one time or another, we’ve all dated the wrong kind of guy. It seemed like a good idea at the time, but you quickly realize that things are never going to work with someone who is so not what you want to tend up with in the long term. Those types of mistakes are par for the course when it comes to the dating game, but you can also save valuable time by learning to avoid certain types of men in the first place. What should you look for? Be sure to keep far away from these creeps:
Mr. Major Baggage He’s been dumped, fired, or passed over for a promotion-- and somehow it’s your problem. If this guy starts venting about his defeats on date number two, you can be sure that it’s going to work your way into any relationship the two of your pursue. Why pine after a guy who has something to prove? When he starts taking his problems out on you, run, don’t walk, in the opposite direction.
Mr. Self Esteem Issues Is he self-deprecating or just insecure? There’s nothing wrong with modesty, but excessive fishing for compliments and paranoid jealousy are signs that this guy is dealing with major self esteem issues. And don’t think for a second that you can change things; doing so will just make you miserable when you realize that despite your great relationship, he still talks about being a failure.
Mr. Weird Family Relationships Look, his parents don’t have to be The Cleavers for things to work out between the two of you. But at the same time, if he has a close relationship with his mother and his mother HATES you, how is that not going to cause problems? Nobody’s family is perfect, and there are plenty of successful couples out there who aren’t close with their families, but if family is important to you be sure to check his out carefully. A good rule of thumb: the people he’s close with should not be serial killers (but that one random serial killer second cousin is fine . . . just kidding).
Mr. All About Him He’s all about his car, his job, his fancy clothes, and he really only cares about you as an extension of his awesomeness. Think he’ll put in the effort to make you happy? Think again. As soon as you start being anything other than the perfect arm candy, he’ll drop you like a hot potato. Lose this loser and find a real man.
Mr. Thrill Seeker He loves to defy death, and counts sky diving and swimming with the sharks among his favorite hobbies. But when it comes to the sharing of the spotlight that inevitably comes with relationship territory, he won’t take the risk. If he wants to involve you in his activities and you’re game, then go for it, but if you’re sitting home at night praying that he hasn’t fallen off a cliff, try finding someone a little less ridiculous.
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I try to avoid Mr all about him . he didnt care at all , he just said bunch of beautiful words and complimants every time . but he just care about his life ! I leave hime 
I try to avoid Mr. Couch Potato. B-o-r-i-n-g