Saying these things at the beginning of your relationship could send your man running in the opposite direction.
- Where do we stand?
The Reason: It makes you look desperate. Men love a challenge and despite what they say, think, or how they act, they don’t want you to define the relationship. Let him take the lead now or he never will. - Do you ever think about your ex-girlfriend?
The Reason: This shows a man that you are not secure with yourself. Even on those days that your zit is huge, your clothes are too snug, and your hair is filled with frizz; you must act like a "Bond Girl." It is the difference between making a man fall in like or in love. - Do you want to have kids?
The Reason: Again, it’s about control. The man wants to take the lead. Let him coo-coo over the baby in the grocery store. You will have plenty of time to let him know that you have already named your three future children. Take the first three months to let him say the D-word (Daddy) first. - Am I fat?
The Reason: If he didn’t like they way you looked, he would not have met you: bottom line! Don’t point out your flaws to him or give him a reason to find any imperfections. To him you are timeless and flawless-- make sure you stay that way. - Does your mother like me? (even worse, can I meet your parents?)
The Reason: His mother is the other woman in his life. Let him decide when it is the right time for you to meet her. He may want to make sure SHE is ready to meet you. You are the woman who may take her little boy away from her. This is a big step, let him take it at his pace.
4 Comments
CupidsReviews Heidi
June 11, 2008
Can I meet your parents?! That’s too funny. Who asks that?
Oh Elizabeth! take it easy and see how things progress. It should be pretty obvious soon enough?
Arianna
June 12, 2008
So, what are the five things a man wants to hear in the beginning of a relationship that will keep him running in your direction?
ncgrits1968
July 10, 2008
I 2nd that Arianna.......
What if I asked him if he has strong feelings for me?