Find out how you “score” when it comes to dating?
Self Evaluation
1. On a scale of 1 to 10, whereas 10 is being at your physical best, where do you currently rate yourself?
2. On a scale of 1 to 10, whereas 10 is the highest level of confidence, where at this time in your life, would you rate your confidence level?
3. On a scale of 1 to 10, whereas 1 is completely jaded, how much have had relationship experiences affected your current dating behaviors?
4. On a scale of 1 to 10, whereas 10 is a completely independent thought process and decision making capabilities, how much do your family and friends influence you decisions?
5. On a scale of 1 to 10, whereas 1 is completely blaming yourself, how much blame do you put on yourself when you have a conflict with your current love interest?
Object of Desire
1. Before you are introduced or approach an object of desire, do you feel completely equal to that person? On a scale of 1 to 10, whereas 1 is completely inferior and 10 is completely superior?
2. When you first meet someone do you feel like you have to be the interviewer or entertainer? Do you feel obligated in making an initial first date successful? On a scale of 1 to 10, whereas 1 being it is your total obligation for the date to go well and 10 it being completely your dates responsibility?
3. What is your initial basis for attraction? On a scale of 1 to 10, 1 it’s just about their external attributes and 10 a balance of everything with an emphasis on the internal.
4. Are you able to choose a potential object of desire on the reality of your own wants and needs or on all those celebrities’ fantasies you see on television and read about in magazines and newspapers. On a scale of 1 to 10, 1 you are totally influenced by outside media opinion and 10 you base your choice on what’s best for you.
5. Do you believe your ideal mate is someone who you are fated and destined for or someone you are going to have to actually put an effort in to catch? On a scale of 1 to 10, 1 being it’s up to the universe and out of my hands and 10, I have to really understand what I want and search for that person.
Self Evaluation Score
If you scored between:
50-40
You are confident enough to date and should consider yourself a great dater.
39-30
You are able to date, but you need to stop internalizing negative reactions.
29-20
You are in no position to be out there dating. You need to work on yourself before you keep dating randomly.
19-0
If you don’t love yourself, how can you love anyone else? You will need to work on yourself before continuing to go out on dates.
Object of Desire Score
If you scored between:
50-40
You see things from a healthy dating perspective.
39-30
You tend to get a little intimidated.
29-20
You tend to rely on chance to meet the one.
19-0
You are not ready to meet your object of desire.
