The first date can make or break any chance for a potential relationship. We hit the streets to try and find out exactly what different types of men think about when the sit across from a woman for the first time. From Jocks to Wall Streeter, find out what men think about you.
Mike: 34 years old, works on Wall Street.
I look for a challenge in a woman. Women excite me that are not afraid of being opinionated and themselves. Here are three things that I look for in a woman on a first date:
1. Eye contact: this shows me she is sure of herself.
2. Presence: there is nothing sexier than a woman that is comfortable and relaxed in her own skin.
3. Intelligence: physical beauty will always attract me but intelligence has “staying power” at least enough for a second date.
Arthur: 28 years old, lives in the West Village in NYC and is an artist.
I want a girl that can go with the flow and just hang out. I hate agenda’s and pressure. After all, in the end you just have each other. Here are 3 things that will definitely make me call her to hang again:
1. I love a girl that is up for anything and will go with the flow
2. Women that can get up and go at a moments notice is the biggest turn-on to me.
3. A woman that is natural and satisfied with the way she looks and NEVER complains about it!
Larry: 44 years old, lives in Brooklyn Heights, NY. Larry is a lawyer.
I want a woman that is direct and doesn’t play games. She is turned on by my intelligence and not my check book. She is happy when we are stimulating our minds not just our bodies.
1. A woman that is always up to learning about new things.
2. A lady that is a team player and not self absorbed, she shows concern for my happiness as well.
3. She doesn’t back stab and only talks about people in good ways.
Jim: 24 years old, lives in Hoboken, New Jersey. Jim is a physical education teacher.
I look for a girl to be easy going and funny on a first date. Heavy conversation freaks me out when I don’t know the girl that well.
1. Women that don’t expect much and have a good time easily, makes me want to call again.
2. She is active and cares about the way she looks.
3. She has a running knowledge of sports and is a fan
Isn’t it funny that the older the men are, the more they focus on intelligence, confidence, and openness in a woman?