My Friend Always Ditches Me For Her Boyfriend
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December 03, 2007 @ 04:24 pm
You have been best friends since college. You were attached at the hip. But now, all of a sudden, she won’t do anything without bringing along her Mr. Right, and they are always all over each other!
Here are a few things to keep in mind so that you don’t lose her friendship and don’t have to live in her shadow.
Your best friend is dating, and you’re not, so what? It’s only matter of time until she’s watching you playing the kissing game with your flavor of the month.
First, accept that it is completely natural to want to have someone special in your life. So, use this opportunity to look at what you want as a single woman. One of the realities of life is that relationships change over time, and you may have to make a little effort to stay connected with your friend. Friendships don’t stop simply because one person develops a romantic relationship with someone else.
Next, if you truly feel that you’ve been forgotten, speak up and let your friend know how you are feeling. You might discover that she is also aware of the distance that has grown between you. Once both of your feelings are out in the open, you can explore new ways to spend some “alone time” with your girlfriend. Finally, remember guys come and go, but girlfriends last forever.
