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Each person needs to highlight a different part of their bodies. The secret is to focus on what you do have and to detract from what you don’t. Check out these field-tested tips from all of us at Sassy Bean:
Remember to only wear clothes that make the best of your unique shape. Too many women have embraced low-rise jeans and tank tops! This is not a good look for your late thirties and forties.
Do not wear anything too provocative. Dressing provocatively often attracts the very guys a woman wants to avoid! Dress sexily but subtly. Your clothes should not say, “Take me home tonight!”
Dress comfortably. When you feel comfortable, you look comfortable. When you feel comfortable, you feel confident, and confident, well dressed woman is sexy.
Selected Styles for Selected Shapes:
A-frame:
Add weight to shoulders to create balance
Horizontal necklines
Shoulder pads a must
Texture above waist
Pattern above waist
Light colors, pale greens and blues
No loud detail below waist
Smooth, simple pants and skirts
Minimum texture below waist
Pear:
Tops always relaxed and loose
Vertical lines on top
Match colors or tops and bottoms
Avoid tucked in blouses
One-color suits-darker browns and blues excellent color choices
Avoid belts if possible
Hourglass:
Simple waist emphasis
Soft, gathered, eased
Avoid anything too tight
Soft prints/designs
Avoid clingy/too tight tops
Avoid loose, baggy tops
Soft colors or basic black
Shaped, one-piece dressing
The main goal is to wear something that is classic, stylish and best suits both your body type and personality. You’ll be confident and ready to connect with anyone you meet!

