The first date faux pas is a common phenomenon, and if the offense is small enough (broccoli in the teeth, anyone?) he’ll probably just ignore it or the two of you can laugh it off. But which missteps are definite deal breakers? Here’s what ten different guys had to say:
“If she gets on the phone. I don’t want to see the phone.” Accountant, 25
“Butane breath.” Salesman, 36
“Talking about their exes.” College Student, 21
“If she asks me about marriage.” Contractor, 25
“I hate it when girls don’t even offer to pay for anything. I mean, I don’t think I’ve ever let a girl pay for a date in my life, but all I want is the little token reach-for-the-purse.” Marketer, 30
“If they talk about themselves too much.” Bartender, 27
“Farting.” Bouncer, 23
“Too many questions. I don’t want to be in interview mode.” Building Contractor, 36
“Not holding your liquor.” Programmer, 23
“Coming with her parents.” Computer Engineer, 43
I love it, Erica! Other turn-offs on a first date: Asking if my roommate is seeing anyone. I love your articles!
Mike
Fellow Sassy Bean contributor, 44