1. Nowhere: That’s right! Most men just want to hang out in front of the TV with their guy friends. They like to eat, talk about fixing the world and contemplate their next workout.
2. Bars: They might not even like drinking, but for some reason a lot of men seem to feel comfortable in a loud, crowded bars. It could be because there is no pressure to talk about things they don’t want to talk about.
3. The Gym: Again, this is another place that men don’t have to speak. The guy takes a buddy, heads to the guy, lifts a few weights and there are only about 10 words exchanged for the entire hour.
4. Movies: Men don’t find movies romantic. Period. This is a place men guy can go and escape from the world. Women sit in the theater and write mental to-do lists, but men run away to fantasyland and become warriors or better yet, Brad Pitt.
5. Scouting For Women: As crazy as it sounds, men are more secure in groups. They often have the same insecurities that women have, so men are even more prone to wingmen. You will be hard pressed to find a guy out alone, usually they have an odd number of men in the group 3, 5 or 7. There is definitely safety where the boys are concerned.
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well go to the same places they go lol with your group to and make sure you be noticed. I’m like one of the boys so i know they don’t always like us to be to girly
So if guys go to these places that don’t allow for or require much in the way of talking, how do you get them to notice you and start talking to you? I have been trying to figure that one out for ages and am still mystified.