He is cute.
He is smart.
And, his family loves you.
He’s had his share of arm candy, crazies and bubbleheads, and according to you, your girlfriends and your gay entourage he should be ready for the “M” word. It’s a great theory, but doesn’t always equate when it comes to the male mind.
There are some reasons that men won’t commit. I will admit, the reasons are not always easy to hear, but they are definitely important to know when you are out there trying to navigate the crazy and confusing world of dating.
Reasons SOME men won’t commit:
The Grass Is Always Greener
This is harsh, and the answer is a blameless one. Some men believe it’s genetically unnatural to commit. Men have a subconscious instinctive desire to sleep with as many women as possible in order to propagate the species. The men who continue to exhibit this behavior, have not been socialized into a monogamous way of thinking.
Sex ISN’T Enough
Great physical chemistry with a woman does not command monogamous behavior from a guy. Great sex, attraction and desire are NOT the ties that bind a man to a woman. In fact, these qualities only open the door for a short time. If a man is not ready, he will tire of the same woman physically no matter how potent her beauty is. Three elements that DO keep a man interested: independence, a woman’s ablilty to maintain her identity and a woman who is never too available in the beginning.
Indecisive
Contrary to popular belief, men are NOT great decision makers. As a matter of fact, when it comes to the opposite sex they are almost incapable of a permanent decision. Many men believe there is something or someone just around the corner, who may be better than who they are dating.
