Dear Matt-
I went out on Date #1 and it was perfect. How do I make sure date #2 is the same?
Here is a punch list of things to do in order to ensure that you rock his world on date number two:
•Create mystery.
Do not call him between dates. Let him wonder what you do during your personal time. Let him see how independent and self sufficient you are. This will turn him on and make him want more of you as well as give you a lot to talk about on date number two.
• Don’t get motor mouth syndrome.
Let him talk. This will make him feel wanted and important, as well as allow you to learn about him.
•Do not sleep with him!
Hopefully, you didn’t do this already. If you did, don’t do it again. He needs to wait until YOU feel he is worthy of your “it girl” status.
For more advice on this sometime crazy and confusing world of dating, check out: Why Hasn’t He Called? This book will be out January 13, 2008. It in, my wife and I answer that age-old question, Why Hasn’t He Called? and provide all the answers you will ever need to navigate the crazy and confusing world of dating!
Dear Matt,
I found old love letters from my boyfriend’s ex. Can I throw them out or do I have to keep them? I hate having them in the apartment!
How would you feel if he threw out an old picture of you and your ex? Believe it or not, men can be surprisingly sentimental. This is a side of him that you may not always see, but if you found love letters it exists in your modern-day Voltaire. If his poetic soul is longing for romantic sentiments, give him some new memories with love letters
and sweet notes of your own. He is with you. Those ex-girlfriends may have been instrumental in shaping him in the past,
but now you are shaping him into part of your future. In time, your new words of love will replace those old letters.
Dear Matt,
The guy I am dating still lives at home. He is 26. Suggestions?
Unless he’s taking care of an elderly relative or his no-rent living situation has a FINITE deadline and a legitimate reason, living at home at the age of 26 is a major red flag. If you are looking to him to take care of you, protect you and give you a secure life, this guy will not be able fulfill his manly duties if his mother is tucking you both in at night. It’s wonderful when a man takes his mother to Sunday brunch, visits her during the week or helps her move heavy items. But If he doesn’t have plans to move out, you may have to move on.
Dear Matt,
I am dating a guy who is my height. I love him to death, but he is just too short for me. My friends say that I am crazy and that he is a keeper. I am not so sure. Am I being judgmental?
In this crazy world of love, dating and romance, I have see it all.
There are so many women who come to me requesting TALL men.
But, there do seem to be a whole lot of heels out there, so don’t turn a few inches into miles of heartache!
Remember:
1. We are all the same height when we lay down.
2. Flats were not just made for comfort.
Some of the most powerful men of our time were vertically challenged, and we are sure their women weren’t fussing over doing the “Tilt and Crouch” when they moved in for a goodnight kiss. In a recent independent survey, we learned the top three things women look for in a guy are: career success, monogamy and a great personality. Height is very low on the list of dating requirements overall, so keep it there.
For more advice on this sometime crazy and confusing world of dating, check out: Why Hasn’t He Called? This book will be out January 13, 2008. It in, my wife and I answer that age-old question, Why Hasn’t He Called? and provide all the answers you will ever need to navigate the crazy and confusing world of dating!
Dear Matt,
Help! My best friend is a doll and we love spending time together. But recently she has been getting on my nerves when she hangs around with my boyfriend and I. In fact, they get along so well that something I feel like they wouldn’t care if I were there or not. Should I confront her?
Feeling like a third wheel in your own relationship is never fun, but you are the only one who can do something about it.
Most likely, your boyfriend is just trying to give her attention so SHE doesn’t feel out of place.
• Make sure you don’t always hang out at the same location. If your best friend is always around then you might need a change of dating venue.
• You may also want to have a heart-to-heart with your gal pal explaining how you feel. There is no reason for you to end a friendship because of something she might not even be aware she is doing.
• Finally, have confidence in yourself. Don’t forget you are the one with a great guy!
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