http://www.sassybean.com/index.php/blog/where_the_boys_are/ The woman's guide to living, loving and relationships en sassybeaneditor@sassybean.com Copyright 2008 08 22 2008-08-22T00:01:00-05:00 http://www.sassybean.com/index.php/blog/article/nyc_buddakan/sassybean http://www.sassybean.com/index.php/blog/article/nyc_buddakan/sassybean#When:17:59:00Z The city of brotherly love is now helping singles find love in the Big Apple...so to speak.Philadelphia Restauranteur Stephen Starr has done it again...this time bringing another of his hotspots to NYC.  Buddakan is still a youngster to the NYC scene, but you won’t find youngsters here. Packed with the “in” crowd, if you didn’t know where the boys are, you do now.  Address: 75 9th Avenue, NY, NY 10011 Where the Boys Are, New York City 2008-07-29T17:59:00-05:00 http://www.sassybean.com/index.php/blog/article/nyc_brandy_library_lounge/sassybean http://www.sassybean.com/index.php/blog/article/nyc_brandy_library_lounge/sassybean#When:00:00:00Z Sshhhh...it's New York City's best kept secret to guys...Don’t mistake this for a library. This bar is refined and high end. The room’s warm amber lighting and leather chairs are ideal to sink into or cuddle with that special single someone you just met.  Brandy Library is the perfect spot to unwind after work, whet your appetite before dinner, spend an evening wining and dining, have dessert and a cognac, or have the time of your life after everyone else has gone to bed. You’ll find us well-stocked and willing, 7 days, 4 p.m. to 4 a.m. Thursday through Saturday, 5 p.m. to 2 a.m. Sunday through Wednesday. 25 N. Moore Street, NY, NY 10013 Brandy Library Where the Boys Are, New York City 2008-07-24T00:00:00-05:00 http://www.sassybean.com/index.php/blog/article/nyc_wolfgangs_steakhouse/sassybean http://www.sassybean.com/index.php/blog/article/nyc_wolfgangs_steakhouse/sassybean#When:00:00:00Z A Manhattan mainstay, Wolfgang's Steakhouse is crowded with quality men from Wednesday-Friday nights.This is not a place for the shy at heart. Grab a friend from work and head over for a nice night on the town. These are quality men, not bar flys. And the food...some of the best in town!  We have found this place to be packed with quality men who are just stopping by for some great conversation, good food and time to unwind. Address: 4 Park Avenue, NYC 10016 Wolfgang’s Steakhouse Where the Boys Are, New York City 2008-07-21T00:00:00-05:00 http://www.sassybean.com/index.php/blog/article/nyc_marions_continental1/Tamsen Fadal http://www.sassybean.com/index.php/blog/article/nyc_marions_continental1/Tamsen Fadal#When:16:10:00Z 1940's chic with a disco beat.... This is an East Village mainstay is popular with singles searching for some fun. Plus, if you have a taste for tradition and campy, chic fun, check it out. A place where not only the girls want to have fun!  354 Bowery between Great Jones & E. 4th Streets Marion’s NYC The History: Marion Nagy arrived in New York City from her native Hungary just after World War II. Her dangerous and exciting journey began when she decided to flee Stalinist Budapest. With careful planning and a little luck, she craftily devised a daring escape to be carried out when she was competing in Paris as a member of the Hungarian Swim Team in the World Peace Games held after the war. Because she spoke not a word of French, Marion realized that modeling was one of the few jobs she was qualified for in France. Under an assumed name, Marion quickly became one of couture’s most sought-after models. Eventually her fame became her nemesis, and no longer feeling safe in Europe, Marion boarded the Queen Elizabeth and sailed to New York City. Marion resumed her modeling career in New York but soon realized that her true passion was bringing together groups of artists and literati for evening socials. Marion’s cocktail and canapés became as well known as the scintillating conversations. Seeing a new career opportunity, Marion joined forces with a talented expatriate French chef and Marion’s Continental Restaurant & Lounge was born in a little storefront in the middle of the exciting “downtown” scene. Marion’s thrived for 23 years with the restaurant overflowing nightly with bohemian artists, stars of stage and screen, socialites, senators, and presidents (All were encouraged to autograph a dinner plate. It’s still a mystery as to where they are today but be sure to see our collection of recently signed plates!). Marion was in her element, greeting and seating, being the hostess of a never-ending party. On a chilly September evening in 1973, Marion gathered her friends and longtime regulars to the restaurant for what would prove to be the grand finale. After a lovely dinner of oysters Rockefeller and filet mignon au poivre, Marion rose from her seat, and tapped her champagne glass to quiet the room. She explained to the shocked crowd that after working for so long, she now wanted to devote more time to her three young children and that in order to do so, she would be closing the restaurant and moving full time to her summer home in Belmar, New Jersey. Marion ordered the party to continue and the guests soon toasted Marion’s new life ahead. In 1990, Marion’s son acquired the space that had housed his mother’s restaurant. Working from old photographs, the dining room was faithfully restored to its original glory.  Where the Boys Are, New York City 2008-07-17T16:10:00-05:00 http://www.sassybean.com/index.php/blog/article/philadelphia/Tamsen Fadal http://www.sassybean.com/index.php/blog/article/philadelphia/Tamsen Fadal#When:00:00:00Z The City of Brotherly Love...is the place to look for love...1. 105 Social With two floors and six different rooms, there is something for everyone at 105 Social. The downstairs has a classic bar feel with a 40-foot bar, plasma TV screens, large wooden booths, DJ booth and dance floor [for the ladies]. The second floor of this Manayunk hotspot offers a sports room [for the boys] with a pool table and a bar room for socializing and a VIP lounge for bottle service. It’s definitely the place to socialize. Bring the girls out on a Thursday night, enjoy the tunes and see what boys are there enjoying your moves! 2. Rittenhouse Square Looking forward to the sun? Well, then pick out your place on the lawn in Rittenhouse Square as soon as the first day of warm weather hits! This is a excellent place to find the boys on a lazy Sunday afternoon [especially since football season is over!] Grab a book at the Barnes and Noble on the corner and head over to that ever elusive green space. Located at the corner of 18th and Walnut Streets, it’s a must do once you see the first sign of spring. 3. Boat House Row Don’t underestimate the power of a Sunday morning power walk when it comes to meeting a man. Running is great for burning calories, but walking will allow him to catch up with you on Kelly Drive. Even in the cold winter months, you can see plenty of single guys along Boat House Row. Located at Fairmount Park, Philadelphia, PA. (just west of the Museum of Art where the Rocky statue stands tall!) 4. Cuba Libre Some like it hot! Do you? At Cuba Libre, the salsa is never mild, salsa dancing that is! This trendy restaurant converts into a salsa stage of sorts, and becomes the hottest place North of Havana. Don’t bring a partner, you will definitely find one here. The music and dancing start at 11:30pm on Friday and Saturday nights, so get ready to Mambo! Located at 10 S. 2nd Street, Philadelphia, PA. 5. Continental Midtown Still the same great food, but definitely a different crowd than the Continental Martini Bar located on S. 2nd Street; both are owned by Restaurateur Stephen Starr. Sunday brunch is always packed and the food is delish, but you may not make it if you spend Saturday night on the rooftop of this Philly hotspot lounging by the fireplace under the stars. Open year round. Located at 1801 Chestnut Street, Philadelphia, PA. 6. Franklin Field You know the guys can’t stay away from those football stadiums, even off-season, so Franklin Field is another must do when it comes to finding cute guys. Located 235 S. 33rd Street, this is where you will find hot, Ivy League alumni trying to keep their bodies as sharp as their minds. Take a Saturday morning to walk the track. It’s seriously one of Philly’s best keep secrets! 7. Old City Ironworks It may have a tough, rough exterior, but that doesn’t stop nice guys from pumping iron or burning calories at Old City Ironworks. Best thing about it, you can get a birds eye of the whole place because cardio is located on the second floor overlooking the entire gym. During the summer months, be sure to wear something cute, as they open the garage doors at the front and you never know who may be walking by! 8. La Columbe Like your latte foamy and served friendly? La Columbe in Manayunk is a great place to meet men on Saturday mornings. You can usually find them here taking a breather after biking up the Wall. 4360 Main Street, Philadelphia, PA.  Where the Boys Are, Other Hot Spots 2008-07-14T00:00:00-05:00 http://www.sassybean.com/index.php/blog/article/where_to_go_in_houston/Tamsen Fadal http://www.sassybean.com/index.php/blog/article/where_to_go_in_houston/Tamsen Fadal#When:00:00:01Z Where to go in Houston...1. Empire Cafe Located in the heart of Montrose, Empire Cafe is a great place to find hip, artsy types who tend to have their noses in a book, but don’t let them fool you! These are the guys are multi-tasking, and also peeking over the top, scoping out the landscape to meet people! Then when the lights go down, it’s the perfect place to be seen! P.S. The coffee is great! 2. Doggy and a date? It’s officially referred to as the unofficial dog park at Allen Parkway and Montrose Street. But, it still draws a friendly crowd who all have one thing in common, puppy love! Make sure you have an extra treat in your pocket just in case you find a lovely lad walking his Labrador this weekend. 3. La Strada Restaurant You don’t have to go out on a Friday or Saturday night to find single guys. That’s right, as unlikely as it sounds, Sunday Brunch is sizzling at the La Strada Restaurant in Montrose. And the best part, no one is getting up early to catch the worm, you can arrive after 11am to find a great scene. P.S. wear your Sunday best, or your Sunday sexiest.  322 Westheimer Road, Houston, TX 77006 4. Off The Wall Gallery Looking for a fellow art lover to enjoy some off the wall finds? Weeknights are the best time to fill your urban soul at Off The Wall Gallery. Check out the new exhibit openings after a hard day at the office.  5085 Westheimer Road, Houston, Texas 5. Belvedere Belvedere is your place to meet some top notch men. Here you will find a fashionably dressed and attractive crowd with a stylish and relaxed attitude. The boutique, upscale bar is not intimidating at all, despite the fact it’s filled with wealthy, good looking professionals. Please pass the Dom! 6. The Shakespeare Pub The Shakespeare Pub is a little slice of blues heaven in Houston that hosts live music four nights a week; always good and ever so funky. They definitely seem to book the best local acts around, so if you are look for live music and live singles, head on over. P.S. There’s almost never a cover, but it’s priceless!  14129 Memorial Dr. Ste E, Houston, Texas Where the Boys Are, Other Hot Spots 2008-07-10T00:00:01-05:00 http://www.sassybean.com/index.php/blog/article/where_to_go_tampa/Tamsen Fadal http://www.sassybean.com/index.php/blog/article/where_to_go_tampa/Tamsen Fadal#When:00:00:00Z The Sunshine State is always filled with hot men...1. Seminole Hard Rock Casino Are you a World Poker Tour addict? You know who you are. All of the pro’s names are at the tip of your tongue and you get really excited when you see them in a Vegas crowd. If hanging out with the likes of Phil Helmuth strikes your fancy then Tampa’s Hard Rock Casino is the place for you. Grab a group of girlfriends and spend the evening at this hot spot in the heart of Tampa. As long as you can play a decent game of Hold em and don’t party like Paris your odds of meeting a Tampa Hottie are high. 2. Davis Islands’ Dog Park and Wag Pet Emporium Take your dog to the tip of the island at either the wet or dry park to meet a few studs(men that is) and afterwards the both of you can stop by Wag Pet Emporium located in the business district to treat your new friend’s pooch to a chewy, squeaky toy or if you are really cool…a dog beer. Also, grab a cup of coffee for your friend at Sip coffeehouse next door. 3. Splitsville at Channelside Like to bowl but hate the neon lanes, deafening music and “mixed” crowd? This is not your parent’s old-school bowling alley. This upscale hangout features multiple bars, full service dinning lounge and twelve alleys. On Saturday night there are more scores happening off the alley than on. 4. Fly Bar & Restaurant aka “Fly” The Fly is located in the up and coming area of downtown Tampa. This establishment is buzzing with guys from all around the Tampa Area. This new Tampa Hot Spot is rockin’ at all hours. The menu is designed around small plates making it the perfect spot to meet for a quick drink and small nibble…leaving plenty of time to prolong the evening and catch him in your trap. 5. Tampa Bay Uncorked In the mood for a little bubbly? Tampa Bay Uncorked is a fun and easy way to casually meet men with a taste for the finer things in life. Whether it’s a wine tasting, wine pairing dinner or happy hour, the conversation is sure to be relaxed, insightful and a detour from the bar scene. 6. The Balcony Club Looking for a man who enjoys movies other than XMen, Saw and National Lampoon’s Vacation? Do you want to spend time dishing about vintage films or discussing the multi-dimensional protagonist of an indi? The Tampa Theatre’s Balcony Club is the place to spend time in an opulent atmosphere and meet men with a palate for entertainment with a plot! And, you can feel good about not being overly narcissistic…as all of the money raised through the Balcony Club goes to help support the historic Tampa Theatre. 7. Legends Field Spring training is only a few short months away… so dust off that cute baseball cap and get ready for a season of cute hairdos at Legends Field. If you’re looking for the All American guy, look no further than the closest hot dog stand. Where the Boys Are, Other Hot Spots 2008-07-08T00:00:00-05:00 http://www.sassybean.com/index.php/blog/article/where_to_go_orlando/Tamsen Fadal http://www.sassybean.com/index.php/blog/article/where_to_go_orlando/Tamsen Fadal#When:00:00:00Z Heading to the Sunshine State...take a look...1. Eola Wine Company Cafe-sized with a wine-cellar ambience, Eola’s curved wood bar, comfortable seating and stacked-bottle decor make it the perfect after-work hangout for a few drinks, appetizers and perhaps dessert. On chilly evenings, a cozy outdoor seating area is heated to accommodate customer overflow. There are more than 200 wine choices--and more than 45 available by the glass. You can also try a flight of 2-ounce samples of four different brands before deciding what to drink. Located at: 500 E. Central Blvd @ Orange Avenue) 2. RDV Sportsplex Athletic Club Hot, hot, hot and we are not talking about the Florida sun. The RDV Sportsplex has over 450 pieces of state-of-the-art equipment where you can sculpt your body while you do a little sightseeing. If you get too hot and sweaty, not to worry, you can cool off over in the ice den where you will find plenty of boys trying out their Mario Lemieux moves.  8701 Maitland Summit Boulevard, Orlando, Florida 3. Cranes Roost Park in Altamonte Springs It may look like just another place to run, but on Saturday and Sunday mornings this park is packed with joggers, walkers and sunbathers hanging out around the water. Don’t run too fast on the bridges; give them a chance to catch up with you.  Located behind the Altamonte Springs Mall. 4. Bar-B-Q Bar It can be crowded and trendy, but during the week, this is a great place to go for a drink with the girls after work. Groups of men always seem to find their way to this spicy Orlando hotspot. There is outdoor seating and live music for those warm Florida nights.  Located at: 64 N. Orange Avenue, Orlando, Florida 5. Brio Tuscan Grill in Winter Park Village This spot is always great for drinks after work, but lunch time at Brio Tuscan Grill Winter Park Village is the right time to see swarms of singles in business mode, grabbing a bite to eat. Great menu…Great men!  Located at: 510 N. Orlando Avenue, Orlando, Florida 6. Orlando Sport & Social Club There are no mouseketeers here, the Orlando Sport & Social Club is a great place to meet new people, get in shape and have a blast doing it. From co-ed softball to co-ed soccer, find the team you like and sign up, it’s that easy. No better place to meet people, than a place where you are having a ball! Where the Boys Are, Other Hot Spots 2008-06-30T00:00:00-05:00 http://www.sassybean.com/index.php/blog/article/where_to_go_washington_d_c/sassybean http://www.sassybean.com/index.php/blog/article/where_to_go_washington_d_c/sassybean#When:12:00:00Z D-C is the best place for boys, take a look...1. Social Safeway Ladies, with your busy schedules we know it is very convenient to order your groceries on online; but why not spend that 45 minutes at the “Social Safeway” in Georgetown. The “Social Safeway”, as it is affectionately called by Washingtonians, is full of single well-groomed men all contemplating that crucial decision: Frosted Flakes or Fruit Loops!? Linger around the beef and poultry sections. Men in DC are always looking to find an excuse to have a barbeque and show off their grilling skills! Maybe you’ll get an invite.  30 St and K St N.W. 2. Mate Lounge Pay a visit to Mate Lounge in Georgetown or try any one of Mauricio Fraga’s five lounges. The atmosphere is chic, but relaxing. Go during the week when it isn’t too packed and it is fairly easy to find a table. Scout out the scene before requesting a table. Their fabulous staff tries to accommodate your table preferences. 3. Café Milano 3251 Prospect Street NW Dine among celebrities, politicians, and Washington’s own jet-setter elite. If you are looking for an older single man, this is the place to be. Take a seat at the bar with your girlfriends and within five minutes at least one George Clooney look a like will be offering you a drink. 4. Capital Alumni Network Miss those college weekends playing football with the hotties on the quads? Look into joining the Capital Alumni Network. Every year CAN sponsors a Softball League and Tournament in Spring and Summer, Flag Football League and Tournament in Fall, and Basketball and Volleyball Leagues and Tournaments in Winter. The fun doesn’t end after the game. Most nights continue at the Bottom Line or The Exchange, both conveniently located near the National Mall. If throwing a football doesn’t interest you, get involved with their philanthropic activities which include a Bachelor/Bachelorette auction benefiting a local charity. A great way to meet fellow male alumni from your university and the other 220 universities in the network. 5. The Georgetown Waterfront Located along the Potomac river in Georgetown, the waterfront restaurants and bars are a great place to find men cheering on their favorite sports teams on TV or to check out the shirtless hotties who dock their boats here for a few drinks. Remember to wear your cutest nautical outfit (it’s so in this year!) 30 St and K St N.W. 6. Ballroom Dance Company You would be surprised how many single men take dance lessons, but pick the Latin dances over the waltz ladies. Salsa, meringue, rumba, cha-cha all very hot. Men are learning these moves to impress the ladies. Take a class with BDC. They have classes and dances all across the DC metropolitan area. The men here are very genuine, interested in you and not just your swiveling hips! 7. DC Improv We know you hated how the Ex spent hours drinking beer and watching Comedy Central. But let’s face it, going to a comedy club is as close as a single man and his buddies get to a cultural event. Men flock to the DC Improv and in groups! Check it out with some girlfriends. No worries; there will be plenty of men to go around. 1140 Connecticut Ave., N.W. 8. Washington Sports Club The best time to go is during lunch. There are many clubs in the city and they are conveniently located near downtown office buildings and residential areas. Lots of professionals try to squeeze in a quick workout during lunch and after work. And just think you get to see the goods before you get anywhere near the bedroom! 9. Rock Bottom Brewery & The Front Page Venture out to Virginia after work. These two Arlington bars have fabulous happy hour specials on Wednesday nights. Every DC and northern Virginia professional lines up to take advantage of these deals. Definitely not a place to skip. Plenty of well dressed men in business (DC’s finance and political types) and business causal (DC’s tech and communications types) so take your pick ladies! Suit or khakis? (4238 Wilson Boulevard Arlington, VA) (4201 Wilson Boulevard Arlington, VA) 10. K Street Lounge So you and the girls want to go out dancing. Check out K Street Lounge. Weekends here are packed with people looking to have a good time. Good music and beautiful people bring back the crowd and I hear there is a new Ladies Night on Saturday. Get on the guest list to avoid cover and lines.  1301 K Street, NW Where the Boys Are, Other Hot Spots 2008-06-25T12:00:00-05:00 http://www.sassybean.com/index.php/blog/article/chicago_where_to_go/Tamsen Fadal http://www.sassybean.com/index.php/blog/article/chicago_where_to_go/Tamsen Fadal#When:12:00:00Z Heading to Chicago for the weekend...now you'll know where to go!1. Webster’s Wine Bar If you are steadfast for Chardonnay, or if Chianti is your staple but you feel the nightlife doesn’t cut it, then Webster’s Wine Bar offers the relief you seek. Every month Webster’s chooses a feature wine, and tastings are organized accordingly. A few small tables create an intimate atmosphere for discussions. In the backroom or “library” old bookshelves line the walls and red velvet sofas give the room a burgundy study feel. The top floor is a larger room complete with fireplace. This room is generally booked weeknights for private functions, Monday nights usually feature live music, usually of the jazz genre. While the weeknight crowds tend to be mellow, the music is a far cry from quiet jazz. It’s more of a funky mix, with acid jazz overtones.  1480 W. Webster 2. Primehouse Hotel dining brought sexy back in ‘06. Hip luxury, like that at the James Hotel’s new restaurant, David Burke’s Primehouse, replaced the button-down bore of yesteryear. Get your sexy on. Architect Deborah Berke has done a complete overhaul in the spacious dining room, featuring warm, rich tones of cumin and cinnamon. Unique design elements include ingrained wood flooring stained brown-blue, ‘’mother-of-pearl’’ plastered walls and blackened nickel chandeliers adorning the ceiling. Guests may settle into chocolate leather upholstered chairs complemented by red ‘’leather” upholstered tabletops. 616 N. Rush St. 3. Sports Monster There is nothing scarey about Sports Monster in Chicago, in fact, just the opposite. It’s the thing to do if you are looking for the boys in the Windy City. Depending on the time of year, you can sign up for all sorts of classes/clinics and sports. From Biking to Rock Climbing to Running. Sports Monster may be a great pick to help you find an adventurous guy, who will make sure you are never bored! 4. Café Iberico Tapas Bar The bar at Café Iberico is a great place for girls to order their sangria at the bar, and get invited to a table for some Spanish Tapas, located on 739 North LaSalle. 5. Join the Chicago Sport and Social Club’s Volleyball team: Beach Volleyball in the summer Indoor Volleyball in the winter 6. Montrose Harbor Dog Beach Montrose Harbor Dog Beach located off Lakeshore Drive near Montrose, this place is packed with guys and their canines, particularly during the late spring and summer time 7. Old Chicago Watertower This is a great place to meet guys who are either buying tickets for a show or are new to the area, perhaps they may need some directions! 8. Grant Park Chicago Outdoor Film Festival on Butler Field [that is within Grant Park] bring a chair and join the guys who come in groups to see a flick. Summer Dance Festival - 11 weeks of 1 hour of free dance lessons followed by two hours of music and dancing. 9. Chicago Millennium Park 1. McCormic Tribune Plaza, strap on your laces and take part in the ice skating which is sizzling from November 11th to March 16th. 2. In the spring and summer, Millennium Park is a great place to stroll the Chase Promende and take in a concert at the Pavilion. Where the Boys Are, Other Hot Spots 2008-06-23T12:00:00-05:00